13 cheezein mansik roop se mazboot log nahi karte hain.
No.1 They dont focus on uncontrolable:
Wo un cheezaun par apni energy barbaad nahi karte hain jinko wo control
nahi karsakte. aur un cheezaun par focus karte hain jinko wo influence(
parbhavit) karsakte hain.aur unko
chordete hain jinko nahi karsakte.
No.2 They dont fear change:
wo change parivartan se ghabrate nahi hain, wo parivarthan ka virodh karne
ke bajaye usko apnate hain, kyunke wo change ko tarqi ka zariya samajhte hain.
No.3 They don't feel sorry for them selves:
manlo kisi ke sath kuch bura hota hai to wo saare din use ke bare me sonchte
rahte hain aur afsos karte rahte hain
lekin jab mentally strong logon ke sath
kuch bura hota hai to wo normal react karte hain afsos karte baithne ke bajarye
wo uske solution dondhte hai.
No. 4 They don't fear taking calculated risks:
yahan pe ye nahi kaha gaya they dont fear taking risks.
yani mentally strong log calculated risk lete hain srif risk nahi lete isko
ek example se samajte hain manlo aap road cross karrahe hain agar dono traf
dekh kar road paar karrahe hain to aap calculated risk lerahe ho aur ek hi
taraf dekh kar paar karrahe ho to aap risk lerahe ho.
No.5 They don’t think about the past too much:
Mentally strong log past me nahi jeete hain pas me hoyi cheezaun ke bare me
nahi sonchte hain balke usse sikhte hain aur aage badhte hain present me jeete
hain.
No. 6 They don’t make the same mistakes repeatedly:
Wo ek jasie galtiyan baar baar Nhi kartehain awo apni galtiyun se seekhte
hain aur uske anusar apne behaviour ko adjust karte hain . Isitarha wo bhavishy
mein vahi galtiyan karne se bachne keliye pichle experience ka upyug karke
sudhar karte hain. Aur aage badhte hain.
No.7 They don’t feel bad when others do well:
Wo dusre logon ki kamiyabiun se naraz nahi hote hain. Balke wo dusraun ki
safalta ka jashn manate hain.aur inhe apne vikas keliye prerna ke roop me
istemal karte hain.
No.8 They don’t give up after the first failure:
Mentally strong log failure ko success ka part samajhte hain jab kisi karn
wo fail bhi houjaye to ghabra kar piche nahi hatte hain balke dekhte hain ke
kahan galti hue hai usko theek karte hain aur aage badhte hain.
No.9 They don’t fear alone time:
Wo akelepan se nahi darte hain balke ye in lamhaun ko khud ko janne
recharge aur self growth keliye istemal karte hain zaher se baat hai sabhi
distraction social relation se door khudke saath samay bitana khud me badlau
lane ka ek zariya hai.
No. 10 They don’t expect the world to give them any thing :
Mentally strong log kisi par nirbhar nahi rahte hain wo mere liye kuch
karega mera dost mujhe lakar dega wo mujhe successful banayedga is tahrah ki
mentality mansik roop se mazboot logon ki nahi hoti hai. Balke wo mehnat ko
zarori samajhte hain aur jo kuch chahte hain usko paane keliye kadi mehnat
karte hain aur wo paa lete hain.
No.11 They don’t expect immediate results:
Inhe fouri taur par natayej ki umeed nahi hai yeh samajhte hain ke taraqi
me waqt lagta hai kyuke aaj boya hua beenj kal phal nahi deta iskelye mahinaun
intezar karna padata hai isitarha kamiyabi bhi 2,3 din me nahi milne wahli
iskeliye lagatar koshish karna padta hai mehnat karna pdta hai sabar karna
padta hai.
No. 12 They don’t fear standing up for themselves:
Wo pane liye khade hone se nahi darte maanlo kis company me kaam karne
walun ko jo unka kaam haiusse hatek exta kaam diya jata hai to isme mentally
strong log iske khilaf kahade honge aur mang=ager se isbarerme baat karenge.
Isitarha agar apka dost lagatar kisi ka maazaq udaraha hai to agar aap
mentally strong honge to aap apne dost ko rokoge kyuke mentally strong log kisi
massoom ko beizzat hote howe nahi dekhenge wo uske khilaf khade honge.
No.13 The don’t waste energy on things they cant change.
Wo un cheezaun par apni energy barbaad nahi karte jinko wo change nahi
karsakte han . manlo ek teacher ne apne students se kaha ke anewala exam ka
paper bahut taugh nikala gaya hai aur wo change nahi hoga to ab isme jo
mentally strong student honge wo pahle se zayada hard work karenge ache se
preapre karenge aur jo mentally strong nahi honge wo paper taugh kyu hai paper
ko kaise out karna mujhse itna padna nai hota yahi sonch sonch kar apna time
barbad karte hai.
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